THE ART OF EMBODYING A MODERN LADY

Being born female does not make you a lady. Being a lady is a character trait and like many other character traits and life in general, it’s a process of learning and becoming. This process more than anything deals strongly with the internal aspect of our being which when full grown blossoms and can then…

ACTIONABLE HABITS THAT SUPPORT SUCCESS

Focus, ambition, drive and determination are all important factors on the path of success. In order to succeed, you must embody what you want to become. Your habits and mindset are a key part of that equation cuz you can’t achieve success with bad habits and an unhealthy mind. If you’re not happy with your…

HOW TO CONSCIOUSLY CURATE YOUR LIFE

Today I’m going to be sharing with you everything I’ve learnt about how to consciously curate your life, because in my humble opinion, it’s the best place to start taking responsibility, after all your life is the only thing that you really own. That is, if you’ve not gifted ownership, or anything like that. So…

Easy Manners For Feminine Charm

Manners refer to the way things are done, or a persons outward bearing towards other. While charm refers to the power or quality of delighting, attracting or fascinating others to control or achieve, by or as if by magic. In other words, manners for charm refer to a way someone does things outwardly that delight,…

I’m Walking Away

In the famous words of Craig David, “I’m walking away from the troubles in my life. I’m walking away to find a better day. I’m walking away.” Walking away is a highly underated life skill that we all need to develop and quick too. The ability to walk away comes from knowing and accepting that…

Feminine Strategy 101

As a Feminine Woman, it’s important to have a vision, focus and a direction of how you want your life to unfold. Without that you cannot accurately and effectively channel your Divine Power into manifesting what it is that you so desire. Feminine Strategy is the intentional use of femininity, soft power, feminine energy and…

How To Find Your Personal Style

Personal style is important, I’ve written about it before. It’s so important that I’m writing about it again. Style is how we express our internal experience to the external world, so I think it’s something we should take the time out to carefully create. After all your reputation always precedes you. Building a mindful closet…

Smash Your 20s

Being in my 20s I can testify to the fact that it can be challenging to sometimes make responsible decisions whilst simultaneously trying to experience all the enjoyment life has to offer. But things easily come into perspective when you look at the big picture and realize that your 20s might just be the most…

Flirt With Elegance & Sophistication

People often mistake sophistication for elegance. While it is possible to be both, you can be sophisticated without being elegant and elegant without being sophisticated. Elegance is graciousness in action. Possessing a sort of confident simplicity. While Sophistication comes from experience and knowledge. A lot of us have been taught that we shouldn’t be flirts,…

Making A Good First Impression

98% of communication is nonverbal, so making a good first impression is not just about your sparkling personality or character. It’s an essential life skill that you need to master. These are a few things that can help you make a good first impression. Posture Is Everything. Good posture creates an aura of confidence and…

Unladylike Behavior

Acting ladylike is not for everyone, but it does help in developing and cultivating your relationships. Acting ladylike is about respecting yourself, respecting others and communicating boundaries effectively. Here are some things that are not ladylike. Dominating Conversations.Okay, narcissistic much?! Chronic Messiness.Dirt, mess, clutter? Miss me with that shit. Social Climbing.I mean I’m all for…

How To Be A Confident Leader

If you want to achieve uncommon success in life you’re going to have to be a leader. The catch there is on average, most don’t know how to do that cuz not everyone is born a leader, some leaders are created and because of that, there may be some gaps in the finished product. One…

‘Self Love Sesh’ Playlist

*SELF LOVE RULES* Don’t be afraid to say no. Don’t be afraid to say yes. Be kind to yourself. If it feels wrong don’t do it. Stay away from drama and negativity. Say exactly what you mean. Let go of what you can’t control. Don’t be a people pleaser. Never Give up on your dreams….

Skincare Rules

I got swept up in the skincare craze a couple of years ago when I had a really bad allergic reaction to groundnuts. It was crazy and a little bit traumatizing cuz prior to that experience, I didn’t have any skin issues and I didn’t really spend a lot of time caring for my skin….

Protect Your Energy

Most of us don’t really consciously think about protecting our energy. I mean we talk a big talk but when it comes down to it are we really protecting ourselves? Are we giving ourselves the best of everything that we deserve, by not subjecting ourselves to the myriad of encounters and situations that drain us…

A Dozen Ways To Activate Your Feminine Energy

The Divine Feminine is exquisitely rich. There is nothing else like it and there never ever will be, so it’s important for those of us (I mean women) who have it to ensure that they don’t misuse this treasure that we’ve been so graciously gifted. Here a couple of ways you can utilize to maximize…

How To Be Productive & Stop Procrastinating

Productivity is our effectiveness when it comes to creating something. There are things that decrease our productivity and things that increase it. If you’re interested in effectively creating, here are my best tips for increasing your productivity. 1. Intrinsic Motivation: Satisfaction in Itself.Inspired action, natural inspiration. Call it what you want. The hack is to…

Signs Of A Toxic Friendship

Most people aren’t hanging out with the right friends, it’s important to surround yourself with people who care about you and will act as catalysts for growth and be here to ppur you when necessary. Its super sad, that people pick their friends so carelessly, but it’s also so so true and we need to…

What Women Bring To The Table

Now that I’m grown, I’m starting to realize a lot of things that are just wrong. In fact some of these things are so wrong that can’t even begin to fathom how they even came into existence and became a thing. One of these said things is the devaluing of women. My mind can’t even…

Enhance Your Feminine Energy

We all possess a natural energy from the time that we are born. This energy can either be activated, cultivated or surpressed. Femininity is not how you speak, dress or look. It is an energy. Feminine Energy is playful, it is light, fun, nurturing, powerful and sexy. Some women live in a masculine state and…

A Call To Action

It is time for a revolution. I think with everything that’s going on the world a lot of realizations that I knew have begun to manifest themselves into our physical reality. We have to make a decision. We have to decide that we are not going to live the way we’ve been living that hasn’t…

A Summary Of Style

Style. It refers to the way you choose to live out your authenticity. It is a carefully curated physical representation of the essence of your being. Style is molecules of you dispersed carefully into reality. With that passionate tirade over, I think its safe to say im pretty much head over heels in love with…

The Art Of Nice Nasty

Disclaimer. I do not support fighting, it’s stressful and unnecessary. But let’s be real, sometimes you have to fight back, not be a pushover and slap a bitch upside down, I’m just kidding, no slapping involved. But if you’re going to be up in these icy streets fighting, at least never go out of character…

Live In The Moment

Wherever you are right now, let it teach you something. Be kind to yourself on the journey and in the process of who you are becoming.– Morgan Harper Nichols Somewhere along the journey of evolution, change and time, we forgot how to stop, breathe, be present, and just enjoy the glorious scent of life. Suddenly…

Physical Type Femininity

We made it to the fourth and final part of the Femininity Type Series, today I’m going to tackle the physical type. Let’s get into it. This type uses sexuality and sensuality to master Femininity. It aids in developing a healthy sensuality, which shouldn’t be mistaken for sexuality. This type is about tuning into your…

Happiness Boosters

I think on a subconsciously level we all in our own ways expect a magic pill to turn up and just solve every single one of our problems, unfortunately it’s not designed to work like . There’s no quick fix to the myriad of challenges we will encounter on our journey. It takes work, and…

Feeling Type Femininity

This Femininity Type is intuitive, nurturing, mysteries and transmutive. It uses the emotions to master Femininity and teaches us how to maximize our Feminine power. This type is connected to the mother archetype and is kind, caring, sensitive, emotional and empathic. It makes it easy for people to be drawn to or approach you because…

Effortless Manifestation

One thing I’ve learnt about manifestation is that you don’t actually have to consciously engage in thinking about things in order for you to manifest them into your reality. You just have to be a vibrational match, it’s all in your subconscious. There was an example that Bruce Lipton gave about a 40 bit processor…

Action Type Femininity

Back again with another archetype and I’m just gonna get right into. This type has to do with using your ambition to master femininity. It includes the qualities involved in having a winners mindset which are absolutely necessary for feminine development. Being strong doesn’t always have to do with physical strength. A lot of times…

Ways To Build Confidence & Self Esteem

Knowing who you are doesn’t just happen. You aren’t just born and boom! Grounded in self. No. It takes work and it’s a gruelling painful process with highs, lows and everything in between, cuz you know what? Nothing in life just happens like that, everything is a process. What matters is what you choose to…

Thinking Type Femininity

In my earlier post I gave a summary of the four basic femininity types, so now I’m going to dig a little deeper and explore each archetype. We’re kicking this off with the thinking type. Let’s get into it. This type of femininity teaches us how to be clever, charming and detached from situations and…

Affluent Habits

I’m a big fan of self improvement and taking responsibility for your life because I mean, it’s yours, who else is going to care enough or be able to intuit what’s best for you other than you? Exactly, there’s no one. Somewhere in my journey, I learnt that habits (aka the things we do repeatedly…

Bedroom Etiquette

I don’t know where the culture is taking us, but I know I’m also not sure I’m on board with all the changes that are permeating our existence. The pace is unsustainable and the practices are sub par. We need to step it up cuz tbh we’re becoming too lazy and comfortable where we are….

How To Get What You Want

I don’t do well with not getting what I want. If I want it I’m going to have it no matter the cost, thats just how it has to be. But considering how life goes, it doesn’t really work like that. So I had to figure out a way to always get what I want…

5 Reason You’re Broke

Having positive money mindset and coming from where I do, are two things that don’t really go together. We are so accustomed to the mindset of lack and this reflects directly in the quality of lives most experience. It’s almost as if people wear their poverty as a badge of honor. Worst part is I’m…

My “FOCUS” Playlist

Sometimes we just need to get our head back in the game and revaluate what’s really important. These are my favorites for alignment & recalibration. Random but meaningful. FOCUS PLAYLIST

The Truth About Being A Feminine Asset

An asset is something that brings value. A lot of beliefs concerning being a valuable asset have been distorted and these distortions are what we have conditioned our minds to accept as what being an asset is. What we fail to realize is the originators of these mindsets and conditioning created them cuz they served…

Feminine Mystery

The modern world has stripped away the concept of privacy and made it seem like it’s a crime to be private. I’m of the personal opinion that a majority of sharing borders on TMI. I mean some things I want to know, but others… not so much. Sometimes you don’t even get the luxury of…

Enhance Your Look

Feeling good starts from the inside but sometimes it helps to accelerate the process by using the external as a catalyst to boost the internal rate of growth and expansion. If you feel good you look good and if you look good you feel good. It’s always nice to put your best foot forward in…

Expressions of Femininity

I know that as humans we tend to get caught up in this being one way and that seems to be the only right way because our minds are accustomed to boxes, right? Let’s not do that here. Let’s refuse to get caught up in one way of expressing our Feminine Power. Women are very…

Understanding The Value of Femininity

Smart women have game and that’s a fact no one can dispute. They equate each other and the absence of one makes it painfully obvious our deficiencies. I’m of the opinion that women under the age of 25 should really be doing the most when it comes to their self expression and figuring out who…

Focusing On Yourself

So I think that this year a lot of us have come to realize that prioritizing ourselves is a need that we can no longer ignore cuz you know what? It all starts and ends with you. Think about it a bit, without you your reality ceases to exist and everything in it vanishes. Anyway,…

Own Your Power!

So a couple of years back I stumbled on the corner of the internet where the femininity movement was taking place and from the very moment I found myself there, I was in love cuz you know what? Each and every one of those women (and few men too) preaching that we need to tap,…

March Madness

No I’m not talking about basketball, sorry to disappoint. But we’re in March! Aren’t you excited? Can’t you feel the supercharged energy in the air? Or is that just me lol. I can’t believe it’s March already, how time flies when you’re caught up doing life. This month we’re going to be exploring the themes…

Components That Define Your Look

We live in an age where we are sometimes made to feel awkward for wanting to be or engage in activities that are looked upon as quintessentially feminine, but if we are being totally honest about it, there’s nothing wrong in wanting to be or do what you were made to be or do. After…

4 Steps to Finding Your Signature Style

*Step 1*Refine Your ConceptMake mood board, list the elements you love and want to incorporate into your style, pick a colour palette that suits your taste and skin tone. *Step 2*Figure out Your Wardrobe NeedsBody type and colouring, lifestyle job and hobbies. All these things play a huge part in your choice of clothing, it…

Things to Know When Dating Men

Dating seems to be a struggle in our generation, I’m not exactly sure why cuz I think the principles that govern the dating world are more black and white than splattered with grey areas. But for some reason we deal in the greys. I guess humans just love the drama and want to complicate everything….

In Defense of Masculinity

“Men are trash!” I cannot count the number of times I’ve heard this said, in fact, I can’t even count the number of times I’ve said it not recognizing the subliminal damage it’s doing. Disrespecting and joking about masculinity and men is straight up wrong. We shouldn’t be doing it cuz surprise surprise we are…

“Whiskey Blues” Playlist

Just let me know how you like it, cuz I know for a fact. it’s phenomenal. Oh yeah, don’t forget your glass of whiskey and keep that pipe puffing. Apple Music Playlist

The Games We Play

Fononyamba Nunghe@FononNunghe The nights were our moments to come alive, and we lived more than ever through and through. Particularly on this singular night, one of the few to remember on the fleeting harmattan evenings of February, the senior boys did something rare: they carried their school bags instead of assigning the task to junior…

Valentine’s Day Ideas

If you’re tired of the cliché activities that take place on Valentine’s Day and you want to have some unconventional fun doing things you love with your loved ones, check out my list, it may not your memory and help you think outside the box this Valentine’s. Stargazing Picnic + Watching the Sunrise. Have a…

“Special Shit” Playlist

If you’re not ready to get all up in your feelings or just feel some type of way just don’t listen. But if you’re like me and you love to drown in your feelings and feel all the vibes. Lol.This is a collection of songs that are close to my heart.Happy listening! Apple Music Playlist

I LOVE YOU.

From the beginning of time, love has been one language that everyone is able to understand. It transcends everything, and that’s not surprising because God is everything. God is love. Over time though in our quest for finding answers and making things work and the progression of human life and existence, man for so many…

FEBRUARY AFFIRMATIONS Pt.1

Affirmations are big part of my life now so I thought to share with y’all since they help and work so well for me. Use as often as you feel necessary. All is well. I am loved. I am a billionaire in the making. I am now attracting exactly the kind of relationships I want….

Hello February!

New beginnings always get me excited. New days, new weeks, new months, new jobs lol. I guess you could say I like new things. I’m also particularly excited cuz it’s fashion month plus it’s the month of love! There’s just so much going on and that I have to look forward to. I hope you’re…

Mindsets to Drop Right Now

Over the past few years I’ve noticed a trend or rather a pattern of mindsets that we in this generation have engaged in and are putting in work to cultivate and if I’m being brutally honest, it’s appalling and I’m not here for any of it at all. That is not the direction we should…

Clear Skin Water

Some time ago, I had an allergic reaction that caused my skin to break out very badly. All the topical remedies I tried didn’t seem to work well enough and my skin health just kept getting worse over time till I knuckled down and decided to go deep in my research on alternative ways to…

The Tenth Insight by James Redfield

I’m not going to lie and say this was in any way an easy read. It wasn’t. It was excruciating and overwhelming for many reasons that at this very moment I do not care to get into, but I loved every single word on every single page. I can’t believe I’ve lived my whole life…

Holistic Habits

This year I’m really working at being better and doing better. Improving the quality of my life and unlocking key aspects of my potential that have been so far lying dormant or that I’ve been neglecting and misusing. I’m also working at approaching it from a holistic point of view cuz I don’t believe in…

Go Pro by Eric Worre

If you’re looking to develop your skills in the network marketing industry and become a professional, this book is the way to go. Its both your meal ticket and your map to navigate the industry. Ive read it about three times now but it never hit me they way it did it did this last…

52 Weeks of Sustainability

I’m an Earth girl. I just love nature and I want every generation coming after me to experience the best of nature in all its beauty and glory. There’s nothing that can replace that, it’s priceless. Unfortunately, we are not shit and we don’t do enough (if anything at all) on our part to care…

The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield

What a way to start the year. When i started reading this book, it gave me the most unusual sense I’ve ever felt. I couldn’t really put my finger on what it was initially or how to even begin describing it, but what i do know is that its one of the most beautiful and…

As One Cycle Ends

It’s the start of yet another phenomenal year. It’s a little bit mind-blowing if I am being completely honest. What. A. Year. It feels like just a couple weeks ago it was the start of 2019 and I was ecstatic about all the fresh new things that I had coming my way. I get excited…

Welcome Back!

I spend a lot of time thinking twice before doing anything or sharing my opinion. it may not seem so but I do…