Acting ladylike is not for everyone, but it does help in developing and cultivating your relationships. Acting ladylike is about respecting yourself, respecting others and communicating boundaries effectively. Here are some things that are not ladylike.
Okay, narcissistic much?!
Dirt, mess, clutter? Miss me with that shit.
I mean I’m all for hypergamy but seeking relationships based solely on their transactional value? That’s a no no.
Good posture corrects a multitude of wrongs and enhances you grace, elegance and attractiveness. Don’t curl in on yourself, stand tall, stand proud.
Respect yourself and respect others. It’s a matter of personal integrity.
Stay lowkey. Not everyone needs to know everything about you.
A true lady knows the value of being a lover, not a fighter.
Being Glued To Your Phone All The Time.
It inhibits social connections and also can point to the fact that you’re addicted to approval.
Embrace your primal instincts but refine them. It’s a deadly combination.
Bottom line it’s respect across all boards, maintain that energy evenly and pertaining to everything you choose to engage in cuz in the grand scheme of things, you’re not more valuable than anyone. Be ladylike and convey maturity. Until next time.
Yours truly, Chalya.